How the chaos and clutter sneaks in and builds up
I surveyed my house this morning and took a quick snap of some of the many bits and pieces left lying around to be put away. Thursday is my last day at work and the start of the weekend for me and the day I feel absolutely drained by the frenzy of the working week. So this is usually the evening when very little gets done as by this time I have run completely out of steam and have neither the intent nor the inclination to do anything but rustle up something quick to eat and then flop.
Although my house may have been tidy on the Sunday evening after the long slog of a weekend’s housekeeping there is always a slow build up of items on most surfaces by Thursday. My survey this morning highlights the problems I have as you can see from the list of items below…
- A large unopened letter from Tuesday left on the office desk – it was actually post for my mother in law because we deal with her finances and both hubby and I knew from the size and weight it was one of those dreaded annual report books from the shares company that we never read as we would need to employ an accountant to translate. It unfortunately goes straight into recycle and one day we will write and ask to get this info online. Note: task for task list!
- The inner peel off lid from the Yeo Valley Yoghurt again on office desk – saying ‘Is this your lucky Lid’? – well it might just be – it has a lucky number to enter on the computer to win a Camper van – I cannot pass this over even though I know it is highly unlikely that I would win and almost not worth the effort of doing it but somehow I cannot just bin it! Note: another task for task list.
- An Ikea leaflet with £15 off promotion – office desk? – correct! – I do keep these just in case there is anything we have in mind to buy and I would put it away in my coupons envelope but I have to figure out how do I remember the offer? For the time being it has just been left lying around on the office desk.
- A coat hanger and heating timer left on the back of the settee – the former left by hubby who was up and off to get the London train at 5am this morning. I expect he left it here not wanting to wake me up rummaging in the wardrobe – so we can excuse this…
- The timer (in the red box) arrived in our house on Tuesday it is to replace the useless one at the cottage and is on our Easter job list but at the moment is waiting for hubby to read the instructions to know if it is definitely compatable with the boiler timer. Note: task for hubby’s task list!
- The rotting apple left on the kitchen counter – I discovered this in my fruit bowl on Monday morning as I grabbed an apple to take to work. I put this one aside thinking that I would cut off the rotten bit and possibly cook or eat the rest when I got home… mmmm never got back to it so it is even more rotted now and may just have turned into compost. Of course I should have sent it over to Sue at 365 Days – £365 she would have it peeled and sliced and turned into an Apple Pie and twenty other dishes in the blink of an eye LOL! Note task for task list…only joking Sue!!
- Spotlights left on the landing bookcase – I bought these from Sainsbury’s well over a week ago and left them in the office hoping hubby would replace the spotlights that have gone – I am still hoping!!
- Tradepoint leaflet left on (you guessed it) the office desk – I have put this where we can see it to remind us to go and pick up a new catalogue at B&Q when passing – problem is I am not sure when we will be passing as we don’t actually ever pass B&Q as it is at the other side of town!
- Necklace left on dressing table (ooops Beauty Station!)– I wore this at work with my black and white outfit yesterday (unusually co-ordinated for me as I hardly ever get as far as adding jewellery) and removed it before bed but it didn’t quite make it to my jewellery box only 5 feet away instead it has spent the night on my
dressing table, Beauty Station. But the reason for this is probably because the jewellery box sits on top of my chest of drawers and the top was covered in a pile of magazines for reading, clean tights to put away, clothes that I had taken off (and should have gone to the laundry basket in my daughters old room as we are limited for space in ours) and didn’t quite make it.
- Opened Easter card left on living room units – I picked this up off the mat when I walked in last night and was so excited to receive a hand written envelope that I just had to open it there and then. It was a homemade Easter card from a friend which reminded me that I must return her recent email as well as send her a card. Note: task for task list. I then put it on one side to go and take my coat off and make a drink before starting the tea.
I won’t bore you with the rest but you get the gist and even though I have places to put some of the above and systems to deal with them it is often the shortage of time on a workday evening that keeps me from attending to such things. So I am beginning to wonder if I have the right systems in place.
With this in mind for May I have chosen Developing my Systems to be my Focus for the month and I cannot believe given my track record that I am already planning this.
Putting systems in place
We all have systems don’t we whether they work for us or not. Some we deliberately set up but a large part of our routine is done through habit, both good and bad, and if we don’t develop a habit consciously then we develop one by default and that is often the start of a bad habit in my experience.
So I wondered how good are my systems – do they help or hinder me and could they be done better and most of all could they free up some much-needed self time and stop the feeling of Thursday night burn-out.
If I considered the running of my home and life as a business and the success or failure of my business was in direct relation to how efficiently I manage the day-to-day running then I ask myself ‘am I a good manager or should I sack myself’?
To know the answer to this I reasoned that I have to look at what my systems are now and if they can be improved. I am very much a systems person but not so much a routine person if that makes sense – that is I like things to be done in a certain way or order but I don’t necessarily do the task or maintaining when I should be doing it. For instance I might find myself blogging rather than using that time to cook a homemade meal and one which we are eating earlier rather than later.
In my job I deal with figures all day, adding them subtracting them, percentagising (is that a word?) them and checking them. I tackle each part of my workload like batch baking for the freezer. I am able to keep on track at work because most of my work has a deadline. I am sure my boss would not approve if he found I was planning my menus or blogging instead of billing the Legal Aid files! I stick to doing what I should be because I know I have to. However, it is different at home as I am my own boss but this is where I fall down because I do go off and work on the wrong thing at the wrong time – now why is that?
To be clear on what my ‘Job Description’ is and of the systems involved I have tried to group the things I do into areas I have responsibility for and this has been my first stumbling block – how to categorise them in a meaningful way.
This is what I have come up with so far
Household and garden management
- Laundry and clothes care
- Gardening – lawn care and plant care
- Stock control
Financial and Paper management
- Bill paying
- Document management
- Purposeful Filing
- Library stock control
- Personal care
Meal and food management
- Menu planning
- Stock control
Wow – you can see why being a working housewife and mother is a full time occupation and I don’t have to include childcare on my list like some of you might!
Have I missed anything and how would you categorise all the things you do in your home and life? Oh and let me know if you have got some good systems going…
I did wonder if meal planning should be part of household or a separate category and decided it is quite a large category to manage in itself so have kept it separate.
Recently I have been reading about Flow and Lean – some of you may have heard of these concepts.
‘5s’ has developed from lean manufacturing concepts in warehousing and they are…
Sorting, setting order, systemic cleaning, standardizing, and sustaining
this discipline ensures that money is not wasted to poor organsination or process. Disorganisation costs money. Each process, from housekeeping to inventory transactions needs a formal, standardised process to ensure consistently outstanding results.
Sounds good to me so I wondered if I could adapt this lean process in some way to meet my requirements.
So in May I am going to get to grips with my systems. Each will get an in depth review and then a possible makeover. For the rest of this month in preparation I will be undertaking a time and motion study really looking at three areas
- the way I do things,
- why I put off doing things and
- could I do them better?
a possible fourth would be could I put off doing them altogether!!
Now please excuse me while I go and put away a few items and get the place relatively ship shape again as well as look at making some Easter goodies and cards.
This weekend we (that is me, hubby, daughter No1 and her partner) are all going up to my expectant daughter No 2 to help her decorate and declutter her little cottage ready for baby’s arrival.
Have a good weekend x
15 thoughts on “It’s the little things…”
Yound are so efficient! Forgive me if I’ve said this before but I find http://www.flylady.net systems really good and not too onerous! Her ‘hot spots’ concept is best and her phrase ‘even imperfectly done housework still blesses your family’ is a great comfort..
I used to follow Fly Lady but since returning to work I find I cannot even follow her successfully – there are always too many jobs to fit into the time available and as I get older I am just running out of steam at night. What I really should do is reduce my hours at work to 3 days but at the moment we are saving for our retirement and trying to get big expensive jobs done around the house and pay off the mortgage. I thought if I analyse my systems I might be able to make them more efficient.
I like your approach! My home systems need a makeover too (and a better distribution of tasks, ahem!)
I with you on that one!
That was my first thought, after a mini melt down this evening after cleaning up a heap, for the BF to whirl in and leave his wake before going to the gym… And I know tomorrow morning, I’ll deal with whatever he didn’t put away/wash up etc. How do you get others into the system?
The older I get the more inefficient I seem to be – I start one job then wander off before it is finished – I suppose now that I am retired it doesn’t really matter as there is always another day – but I do get so easily distracted.- and the lure of the computer and all those lovely blogs to read doesn’t help either.
In some ways I look forward to retirement and letting myself be distracted but on the other hand I am not at this point wishing my life away – it will come soon enough! So in the meantime I just need to find some way to cope with all the busyness and allow myself more me time to indulge myself in crafting and gardening.
Have a terrific weekend away with your family.
Thanks we will
The views of yours house made me smile, we have similar areas looking like this around our house too! You always seem to be so much more organised than me so I will be watching your progress with interest and hoping to pick up some good ideas! Sarah x
And that was just a small selection of items needing attention / putting away!
Even your “not-dealt-with” items left around the house look relatively neat and tidy. If I took photos of mine I’d be somewhat embarrassed. Some have been there so long, (waiting, waiting) that they have collected dust. I’m going to pick three rooms and get rid of the little things. Thanks for the motivation.
It is amazing how these things collect over the week!
The hardest thing for me is paper – lists I make, or planning things. I don’t have a ‘place’ for those. Sure I can toss out a shopping list or to do list, but longer term things, I still prefer to do them by hand… thoughts welcome when you get back from your holiday!